I will be posting random thoughts on whatever I am thinking about, which I will call I think… So my first I think thought is,
I think men are a bit selfish, it just crossed my mind that most of the men that I have dated (with an exception of the few boyfriends) or even my good male friend’s whom I hang out with, I hardly get an invitation to their digs, there is always an excuse… I live at home, my sister is home……your place is more convenient…… I don’t want to get you tired by having you come all this way….. My roommate is not good company….but the guys are more than willing to come over to my place!!!!!
Perhaps not selfish but have something to hide perhaps?
I have a male friend and when he finally invited me to his place, I was horrified. It was so messy I felt like cleaning it. So I preferred him coming over instead. However, I banned him from my home because the last time we hung out he spilled red wine all over my carpet.
Interesting. My hypothesis…
I agree it beats logic – men are s’pposed to be hunters by nature. Maybe the excuse we have is we want ‘our’ space – I’m assuming that there is a fear to commit. Insecurities we are hiding?
I totally agree with 31337. There is always a skeleton in the closet.
Someone i met a few days ago who recently relocated to the country just asked me today to help him shop for his curtains and realy wanted me to see his new apartment.
iam thinking this has to do with the kind of interest a guy has on you, and how willing he is into letting you into his world.
I’m taking notes. But my opinion has to do with space rather than hiding something.